Inspiring others to take exquisite care of themselves and their erotic lives.

Personalised self-care.
Life-affirming sex and intimacy.
Inspired by timeless eastern sciences and evidence-informed neuroscience, I offer a multi-faceted and bespoke approach that acknowledges your uniqueness and encompasses the essence of how to live and love well.
OFFERINGS
Pathways to self-care and pleasure can be different for everyone.
Work with Kirstie in ways that work best for you.
Wellbeing Session
An Ayurvedic health consultation
This is a personal self-care plan inspired by Ayurveda, a holistic health system that recommends nutrition and lifestyle advice based on your unique constitution to build healthier habits and quality self-care into your daily routine.
Sex & Intimacy Session
Education, skills, and practices to enliven your erotic life
Explore and expand your capacity for life-affirming sex and intimacy inspired by a somatic approach that enhances awareness, desire, connection, and pathways of pleasure.
EVENTS
Kirstie also facilitates in-person events.
These workshops and retreats are a combination of potent learning and embodied skills-based practices.
The Women’s Circle, Wellington
Registration now open
The Women’s Circle is an intimate gathering to explore a range of wellbeing teachings and practices that specifically empower, enliven, and nourish women. This is an in-person event. You are welcome to attend one or both of the women’s circles, and no previous experience is necessary. The only pre-requisite is … a willingness to be curious.
When: Saturday 28 June, Saturday 26 July 2025
Time: 9am – 12pm
Host: Kirstie Cleary
Venue: The Home of Compassion, 2 Rhine Street, Island Bay, Wellington
‘... the erotic - the sensual - those physical, emotional, and psychic expressions of what is deepest and strongest and richest within each of us, being shared: the passions of love, in its deepest meanings.’
– Audre Lorde